Sunday, January 27, 2008

Week 16

Week 15 Homework Review
January 23, 2008

Wow, we are halfway through studying the book of Proverbs and “The Way to Go Lightly” class. We are just now starting to become aware of the sin that so easily entangles us and stops us from replicating our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

Hebrews 12:1 THEREFORE THEN, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses [who have borne testimony to the Truth], let us strip off and throw aside every encumbrance (unnecessary weight) and that sin which so readily (deftly and cleverly) clings to and entangles us, and let us run with patient endurance and steady and active persistence the appointed course of the race that is set before us.

Replicating Jesus is what life for a believer is all about because that is what Jesus did when He Himself walked the earth. If we are acting in any other fashion other than like Jesus, we are replicating the world.

Look closer at the Hebrews 12:1 verse. Sin readily clings to us and entangles us if we choose to let it. Eve chose to be disobedient. God gave her the choice. God gives us the choice. Every day we choose to act according to God’s Word or we choose to act according to entanglement that satan binds us with.

Our theme verse:

1 Thessalonians 5: 23, 24 says: (Amplified) And may the God of peace Himself sanctify you through and through [separate you from profane things, make you pure and wholly consecrated to God]; and may your spirit and soul and body be preserved sound and complete [and found] blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ

As you study today’s lesson, ask for God to continue to mold your spirit, soul and body as you strive to become the woman He has created you to be.

Spiritual Healing comes from studying the Word of God
Homework for Proverbs Chapter 15
Due January 23, 2008

1. vs 1 There is a 100% guarantee that if you give a gentle answer to an angry person’s attack, it will calm them, but if you answer with and unkind response, it will cause them to be more angry.

Site an example of a time when this happened personally to you. Both the gentle you and the unkind you. Which example is harder for you to remember????
I think the main reason it is harder to think of the gentle you is because those responses happen less often. It is also easier to have a gentler response to an outsider than a family member. As we grow more like Christ, our answers should become more gentle regardless of who makes us angry and the reason is because everyone is looking for “the Way” to go in life. The lost are watching us.

2. vs 3 What can you hide from the Lord? The Lord is watching everything and everywhere. Notice: he is watching evil and good. Are you displaying the Kingdom of Heaven or the kingdom of satan?

Jeremiah 16:17 “My eyes are on all their ways; they are not hidden from my presence, nor is their iniquity concealed from my sight”.

2 Chronicles 16:9 The eyes of the Lord search the whole earth in order to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to him.

3. vs 4 As a tree gives fruit, healing words give life, but dishonest words crush the spirit. (NCV) You might have an example of how healing the words of a doctor were when they said, “Everything is fine”, or how healing it is for someone to hug you and say, “It’ll be OK”. We all need to receive as well as give healing words to others. What words will you use this week to make your fruit ripen?

List 10 healing words and start saying them. WAY to GO!

Love, security, proud, safe, understand, peace, trust, warmth, protected, hope, sympathy, comfort.

4. vs 7 Ever think about what lips are for? Why did God create lips? (protection: the lips and the teeth both can stop the tongue from working – two barriers to stop the tongue. Perhaps God knew how wicked the tongue can be) What happens when your lips are open and moving? (The guard comes down) When they are closed? (The guard is in place) What is an example of what good can come from lips? (Protection – keep your lips together and see how hard it is to talk). Proverbs 8:6Listen, for I will speak of excellent things, And from the opening of my lips will come right things;

5. vs 10 There is severe disciplines for anyone who quits doing what is right and forsakes “the way”! What does “die” mean in this verse?

At first a born again Christian refuses correction for not choosing to follow the Way, that makes him unteachable (she who hates correction) refusing to learn from it. . which leads to death. They will die -
Genesis 2:17but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die

John 6:50This is the bread which comes down from heaven, that one may eat of it and not die

John 8:24Therefore I said to you that you will die in your sins; for if you do not believe that I am He, you will die in your sins.”
John 11:25 Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live.John 11:26And whoever lives and believes in Me shall never die. Do you believe this?”
Romans 5:6[ Christ in Our Place ] For when we were still without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.
Romans 5:8But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us

Romans 6
1WHAT SHALL we say [to all this]? Are we to remain in sin in order that God's grace (favor and mercy) may multiply and overflow?
2Certainly not! How can we who died to sin live in it any longer?
3Are you ignorant of the fact that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into His death?
4We were buried therefore with Him by the baptism into death, so that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glorious [power] of the Father, so we too might [habitually] live and behave in newness of life.
5For if we have become one with Him by sharing a death like His, we shall also be [one with Him in sharing] His resurrection [by a new life lived for God].
6We know that our old (unrenewed) self was nailed to the cross with Him in order that [our] body [which is the instrument] of sin might be made ineffective and inactive for evil, that we might no longer be the slaves of sin.
7For when a man dies, he is freed (loosed, delivered) from [the power of] sin [among men].
8Now if we have died with Christ, we believe that we shall also live with Him,
9Because we know that Christ (the Anointed One), being once raised from the dead, will never die again; death no longer has power over Him.
10For by the death He died, He died to sin [ending His relation to it] once for all; and the life that He lives, He is living to God [in unbroken fellowship with Him].
11Even so consider yourselves also dead to sin and your relation to it broken, but alive to God [living in unbroken fellowship with Him] in Christ Jesus.
12Let not sin therefore rule as king in your mortal (short-lived, perishable) bodies, to make you yield to its cravings and be subject to its lusts and evil passions.
13Do not continue offering or yielding your bodily members [and [a]faculties] to sin as instruments (tools) of wickedness. But offer and yield yourselves to God as though you have been raised from the dead to [perpetual] life, and your bodily members [and [b]faculties] to God, presenting them as implements of righteousness.
14For sin shall not [any longer] exert dominion over you, since now you are not under Law [as slaves], but under grace [as subjects of God's favor and mercy].
15What then [are we to conclude]? Shall we sin because we live not under Law but under God's favor and mercy? Certainly not!
16Do you not know that if you continually surrender yourselves to anyone to do his will, you are the slaves of him whom you obey, whether that be to sin, which leads to death, or to obedience which leads to righteousness (right doing and right standing with God)?
17But thank God, though you were once slaves of sin, you have become obedient with all your heart to the standard of teaching in which you were instructed and to which you were committed.
18And having been set free from sin, you have become the servants of righteousness (of conformity to the divine will in thought, purpose, and action).
19I am speaking in familiar human terms because of your natural limitations. For as you yielded your bodily members [and [c]faculties] as servants to impurity and ever increasing lawlessness, so now yield your bodily members [and [d]faculties] once for all as servants to righteousness (right being and doing) [which leads] to sanctification.
20For when you were slaves of sin, you were free in regard to righteousness.
21But then what benefit (return) did you get from the things of which you are now ashamed? [None] for the end of those things is death.
22But now since you have been set free from sin and have become the slaves of God, you have your present reward in holiness and its end is eternal life.
23For the wages which sin pays is death, but the [bountiful] free gift of God is eternal life through (in union with) Jesus Christ our Lord.

Synonyms to the word Die: perish, pass away, leave this world, depart, come to one’s end, go the way of the flesh, go to one’s Maker, meet one’s Maker, come to an end, lose power, stop, yearn for (I’d die to) be eager, be anxious, desire greatly, be consumed with desire,
To die means to relinquish your life. To die is to cease to live (the way you were before).
1 Corinthians 15:31[I assure you] by the pride which I have in you in [your fellowship and union with] Christ Jesus our Lord, that I die daily [I face death every day and die to self].

Would someone please tell me what is meant by dieing to self?
When I looked in the concordance to see what the word self meant I found words like self-confidence, self-control, selfish, self-love, self-righteous, self-satisfied
We must die to this following which are definitions of the above words: vanity, hypocritical, holier-than-thou, miserly, mean, wrapped up in oneself.
When I die my physical death, I do not want anyone to say words like:
She died of cancer or some type of physical ailment. That simply doesn’t get it for a Christ follower.

I want them to say, She lived for Jesus! Isn’t that what it’s all about?
And I do not want to hear a Christian say they are dying of anything other than their “self”. Live my friend. LIVE!

6. vs 13 Happiness makes a person smile, (a glad heart makes the face cheerful (speaking of lips…hint hint). Sadness can break the spirit (a broken heart crushes the spirit. What does this mean to you and give an example.

7. vs 13 Do you know of someone that is physically sick because they have a broken heart? Are you? Vs 13 says: …but by sorrow of heart the spirit is broken. When I read that verse I know how easily your spirit (defined: your get-up-and-go can get-up-and leave) can be broken. But we must remember the power that resides within us is real.

8. Romans 15:13Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit

We serve a God of hope; our spirit need not ever be broken although we are in a constant bombardment of the power of satan. Do not allow this but instead call on the power of the Holy Spirit.

9. vs 15 is great! Everyday for the poor is hard. Does this mean financially poor? Well the second half of that verse explains that instead it is talking about what? Happy heart Include vs 16 in your answer. It is better to have little than to have turmoil in your life.

Pessimist versus an optimist. A pessimist is always looking at the negative in everything. She is quick-tempered, fearful, and negative. An optimist is always looking at the glass half full. She is even-keel and enjoys life.

10. vs 17 is my argument for eating a vegetable diet. Notice I didn’t say; vegetarian. There are a lot of professed vegetarians that simply do not eat meat, but don’t eat vegetables at all, just a lot of junk. Shouldn’t they be called nonmeatjunkatarians? My point???? Eat God’s food regardless of the confusion and influence of the world’s “healthy” diets!

11. Do you have a quick temper? Perhaps there is bottled up anger inside you. Vs 18 (NRS) - Those who are hot-tempered stir up strife, but those who are slow to anger stop a quarrel. Do the research into your hidden chambers.

Jeremiah 22:13Woe to him who builds his house by unrighteousness and his [upper (hidden)] chambers by injustice

Are there buried hurts, pains or unforgiveness in your hidden chambers? Remember what the only thing is that can wash your hidden chambers clean?

Hebrews 10:22Let us all come forward and draw near with true (honest and sincere) hearts in unqualified assurance and absolute conviction engendered by faith (by that leaning of the entire human personality on God in absolute trust and confidence in His power, wisdom, and goodness), having our hearts sprinkled and purified from a guilty (evil) conscience and our bodies cleansed with pure water

God’s Word is alive and sharper than a two-edged sword.

12. vs 23 Conviction L ? Women enjoy giving “good” advice. A word spoken at the right time is a timely word! Keep those lips zipped!

I have to work on that. J

13. vs 24 (NKJ) “The Way” of life winds upward for the wise, that he may turn away from ___hell__________below. I like the (NCV): Wise people’s lives get better and better. They avoid whatever would cause their death. Do not live a dead life!

Don’t overlook this. WISE choices help us to be on the journey towards physical health. This is speaking of physical death.

In sticking with what we have learned so far answer the following questions: What causes spiritual death? Rejecting Jesus as your personal savior.

What causes mental death? – living in the past and trying to change things you have no control over.

What causes physical death? Vs 24 – making unwise choices.

14. vs 28 (NRS) The mind of the righteous ponders how to answer, but the mouth of the wicked pours out evil.

Define ponder: consider, meditate, give thought to - in other words, think before you allow your lips to move.

Look up another verse regarding the mouth: There are over 300 of them so it won’t be hard to find one!

Proverbs 13:3 He who guards his mouth keeps his life, but he who opens wide his lips comes to ruin

John 9:31 Now we know that God does not hear sinners; but if anyone is a worshiper of God and does His will, He hears him.

When a person says: “You are putting words into my mouth”, what exactly does that mean? Could there be some blame shifting going on here?

15. vs 30 Where does your happiness show? Where does the LIGHT of your heart show through? What makes for good health? Is there a connection between the spirit, mind, and body?

This is very tough. The outside of a man reflexed the inside unless you have been training yourself to pretend everything is OK.

Numbers 24:9He couched, he lay down as a lion; and as a lioness, who shall rouse him? Blessed [of God] is he who blesses you [who prays for and contributes to your welfare] and cursed [of God] is he who curses you [who in word, thought, or deed would bring harm upon you].

16. vs 31 (NLT) If you listen to constructive criticism you will be at home with the wise. 32 If you reject criticism, you only harm yourself; but if you listen to correction, you grow in understanding.

Define listen: to make the effort to hear! Antonyms: to ignore

Define constructive: helpful, productive, practical, handy, useful, beneficial, advantageous, valuable. Does that describe me?

Define criticism: to find fault with, disapprove of;

Define correction: rectify, improvement, change, alteration,

Define wise: having good judgment knowledgeable, discerning.

Define understanding: knowledge, comprehension, appreciation, sympathetic,

Now summarize vs 31 and 32 in your own words: If you are wise you will listen to the correction of the wise. Mainly from the word. If a woman won’t listen to the instruction of the wise, she will is not wise.

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You have been given a copy of a nutrition type magazine. Read at least one article and be prepared to report your findings to the class. Part of changing is to expose yourself to magazines and books that teach you. Make a decision to educate yourself. I have plenty of books to lend out. J

This letter came this week from one of our group attendees. I have reprinted it in order for us to pray for her.

HI-
If you want to pass this out that is appreciated. I need all the prayer I can get! I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!

When I did the study last week there was a question about "what is your cross". The one that came to mind may not seem like a cross to some but for me it is smoking. I have smoked on and off for years. I won't go into all the details but I started again about 4 years ago when my mom was in the hospital dying of lung cancer. (oxy moron, huh?) I tend to go back to it any time there is a level of stress that I am uncomfortable with when, in my heart, I know I should go to the Lord. It may sound crazy but in some strange way I feel a bond with my mom when I smoke. I miss her terribly. God delivered me once from this addiction 14 years ago and I know He is strong and mighty to do it again! Because of my disobedience I think He wants more from me this time. Some tell me it is not a sin and it won't send me to hell. Maybe not, but the torture in my mind and heart feels a bit like hell! Torture knowing I am not taking care of the temple, torture knowing that God wants more for me, that He wants me to/has commanded me to stop. It is one of those things the Word talks about that may not be a problem for some - God may not speak to all smokers the way He has talked to me. Hope this all makes sense!

I have a challenge on the table and it is going to take My Lord and the prayers of my old and new friends to have victory in this area. Our youngest boys have always hated my smoking and tend to be quite verbal about it. Especially since they learn in school what it can do to people and that it is a drug. Last night they came up with a "deal" for me. Our 6 yr. old, Joshua, was very upset when I stopped to buy a pack. He grabbed me and hugged me and said, "I don't want you to smoke and die!" He continued to be upset all the way home. As we neared home our 8 yr. old, Zachariah, said, "Mom, Josh and I have a deal for you. Starting on Sunday you quit smoking for 3 weeks. While we're at school Daddy is going to watch you (we work at the same place), we're going to tell your boss and everyone you work with to keep an eye out." (I have quit before and do fine on the weekends but I work with a lot of smokers and it tends to be a stressful environment so I justify it and start smoking there again.) When my husband or the boys say anything I tend get defensive and more determined to do what I want to do! This time I immediately felt like I CAN DO this. I want to do this. I know it is time. I see the hurt in their eyes. I see the wedge it has put between my husband & I. I see the report from the Dr. regarding my blood pressure, cholesterol, etc. The truth is I can't do it but God can with the Holy Spirit and the power of prayer warriors like you!


3 weeks happens to be 21 days which is what they claim it takes to create a new habit. Smoking is an addiction, yes, but it is also a very habitual thing. I smoke when I am on the phone, driving, after I eat, etc. I need to create new habits for these times so that the desire will be minimized. Any suggestions?

Thank you all for welcoming me into the group and for your transparency. It has given me the courage to be transparent regarding this issue. I covet your prayers and welcome any suggestions/encouragement. My number is [please contact joanie or kelly--i didn't want to put her number on the internet] if the Spirit moves you to call before Wed. when you'll have the contact list.

In His Shadow-
Kelly R



Homework, Proverbs Chapter 16
Due January 30, 2007


Question – If you would, close your eyes and go to a very quiet place in your mind. Imagine yourself “living” what you would consider a “perfect life”. Write down your very first thoughts. Do not try to sound religious or put down what you think I want to hear. Be honest and do not be afraid to write what you really, truly feel and think.

1. 16:1 (NCV) People may make plans in their minds, but only the Lord can make them come true.

(NLT) We can gather our thoughts, but the Lord gives the right answer.

Now, knowing what Proverbs 16:1 says, look back at what you wrote and then write yourself a note from God:

My dear daughter: I, the Lord can make your perfect life come true. You have gathered your thoughts, now allow me to give you the right answer as to how I want your life to be perfect. For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord. Jeremiah 29:11 Your Father, God

2. 16:2 Sometimes we believe we are doing the right thing, but what is your motive for doing what you are doing? Self recognition? Selfish motives? NRS – All one’s ways may be pure in one’s eyes, but the Lord weighs the spirit. Please take time this week to dig into your motives for doing what you are doing.

3. 16:3 Look up the word commit – then determine if you “commit whatever you do to the Lord.

4. 16:5 define pride. _________________________________________
define punished ___________________________________________
Are we fearful of being punished? _______________________________

5. vs 6 Fear and respecting the Lord…we see this again. We are called to love …show mercy…have faithfulness…These things will cover sin. Why?

6. vs 8 Why is that we continue to strive for more money and more things? Maybe to cover the bills? My husband and I recently met with a Christian financial advisor. We were amazed at how little we knew about different aspects of our finances. Are your finances glorifying God?

7. vs 9 I love this verse and it is important to keep this posted so that we stop thinking we have any control over our own steps. Give an example of a time when you made a plan, but the Lord had you walk a different path.

8. vs 16 My neighbor told me that years ago her son invested $40K in silver. Today it is worth a few dollars. What good is gold and silver if you are unwise and ignorant? Proverbs is about becoming wise. Never ever give up trying to apply the principles given in this amazing book.

9. vs 17 The Way to Go Light women avoids evil by __________
vs 18 Pride goes before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall. Somewhere along the line we combined this verse to say, Pride goes before the fall, but take time to look deeper into this verse and determine what it is saying to you by defining pride, destruction, haughty and spirit.

10. vs 20 The older I get the more I realize that the only place to find blessed assurance is with the truths in God’s Word. Man’s advise will fail you every time. Elaborate on this statement with vs 20.

11. vs 24 Kind words, kind words, kind words are like honey. What else do kind words, kind words, kind words do? (previous vs) Health comes from kind words. Try finding 10 kind words….write them out…say them 20 times!!!! And see how much healthier you feel.

12. vs 28 Are you a perverse, troublemaker? Gossip? Plant seeds of strife?

13. vs 31 Gray hair…(whohoo) is a crown of glory; it is gained by living a righteous life! Personally gray hair makes me look old and feel old. Is there vanity in that statement? Did Solomon have gray hair? Why would he say this? J

14. vs 32 Find another verse in Scripture very similar to this. Biblegateway.com Slow to anger...are you getting there?

15. I love vs 33! Even something as simple as throwing dice, the Lord knows the outcome!



Physical Healing

Are you ready to give your reports?

Education is so important but just like any knowledge coming your way, you always determine if it is truth. In the health arena, you will be told many deceptions based on weak studies that are geared to a certain outcome.

Before spending a bunch of money on medicines, supplements or vitamins, try to eat the fruit of every seed bearing plant for which God created for your health.

The information on the following pages was researched for a member of our group that wants to stop smoking. God does not say in His word specifically that smoking cigarettes is a sin, but He does say that although everything is permissible, not everything is beneficial.

1 Corinthians 6:12"Everything is permissible for me"—but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible for me"—but I will not be mastered by anything.

Should you have questions regarding more God made herbs or foods that are beneficial is helping you stop smoking, please contact me at dlewis115@cfl.rr.com.

Smoking – is not a sin. Read to the end of this report to find out what sin smoking creates in a born-again Christ follower.

Tobacco smoke contains thousands of chemical constituents but the one that is so addictive to the Christ follower is nicotine. Nicotine acts as a stimulant on the central nervous system; when nicotine is ingested, adrenaline production increases, raising the blood pressure and heart rate. Nicotine also affects the overall metabolic rate, the regulation of body temperature, the degree of tension in the muscles, and the levels of certain hormones. These and other metabolic changes create a pleasurable sensation in the Christian user, and she “feels” a false sense of security, relaxation and love.

This false sensation is one of the factors that makes tobacco so addictive. Another is the fact that tolerance to the effects of nicotine develops quite rapidly. That is, the dose needed to achieve the desired effect begins to rise almost immediately, encouraging you to increase the amount you smoke—which in turn increases the likelihood of addiction. Once you become addicted, your body depends on the presence of nicotine. If you then refrain from smoking, withdrawal symptoms occur. These include irritability, frustration, anger, anxiety, difficulty concentrating, restlessness, increased appetite, headache, stomach cramps, a slowed heart rate a rise in blood pressure, and most of all, an intense craving for nicotine.

The smoking habit is difficult to break. It is harder to overcome tobacco addiction than a heroin or cocaine addition. This is because smoking creates both physical and psychological dependency. It seems to be easier to overcome the physical addiction but the psychological dependency or concerns are never addressed. Acute physical withdrawal lasts for a limited period of time, usually no more than several weeks, but the psychological dependency require the ongoing journey found only through continuous reinforcement from your Creator.

By the time you have become addicted to nicotine, the act of smoking itself has become a false source of pleasure, and it may be so intertwined in your mind with other activities – having your morning coffee, taking breaks at work, reading, after the kids have gone to bed, working, the smell, socializing, whatever—that you find yourself unable to imagine engaging in those activities without a cigarette in hand. In addition, smoking provides a convenient excuse for taking a momentary break, especially during times of stress, and may help to smooth over awkward moments. Many times the believer is afraid of what might happen if they stopped; they fear withdrawal symptoms, weight gain, or a decreased ability to concentrate. All of these factors combine to make quitting difficult.

Obvious health reasons to quit: Cigarettes cause more than 25% of deaths in the US. Tobacco smoking causes an estimated one third of all cancer deaths, one fourth of fatal heart attacks, and 85 percent of deaths from chronic obstructive pulmonary disease. It accounts for at least 85 percent of lung cancer cases. Man other health problems have been linked to smoking as well, including angina, arteriosclerosis, cataracts, chronic bronchitis, colorectal cancer, diarrhea, emphysema, heartburn, high blood pressure, peptic ulcers, respiratory ailments, urinary incontinence, circulatory ailments, cancer of the mouth and a higher increase risk towards cold.

A single pinhead drop of nicotine can kill you. You are choosing to kill yourself when you smoke.

Women smokers experience menopause earlier, face a greater risk of osteoporosis after menopause, have a high risk of developing cervical or uterine cancer.

The Good News is with God all things are possible. Your body is a gift and a precious one at that. Health cannot be bought. Destroying this precious gift you have been given is an insult to the Giver of your eternal life.

Not So Obvious Reason to Stop - The only true reason to stop is that the Bible says that we are to honor God with our body.

1 Corinthians 6:20 You were bought with a price [purchased with a preciousness and paid for, made His own]. So then, honor God and bring glory to Him in your body.

This is not an option but a command. You were bought with a price. That price was His body. The cross He bore for you was for your eternal salvation.

The other good news is that within 24 hours of your obedience to stop smoking, your blood pressure and pulse rate return to normal, your oxygen and carbon monoxide in your blood will return to normal and within a week your risk of heart attack begin to decrease, your senses of smell and taste improve, and breathing becomes easier.

The body will heal if given the right environment.

Herbs from your Creator to help stop smoking:

Catnip, hops, skullcap, and valerian root – will help reduce anxiety and stress, slippery elm relieves lung congestion and coughs.

Foods from your Creator to help stop smoking:

Asparagus, broccoli, Brussels sprouts, cabbage, cauliflower, spinach, sweet potatoes, and turnips. Whole grains, raw almonds, sunflower seeds, brown rice, deep orange and yellow vegetables, like carrots, pumpkin, squash and yams. Apples, berries, Brazil nuts, cantaloupe, cherries, grapes, legumes (chickpeas, lentils and red beans), onion garlic, and beets.

Do not consume animal protein except wild caught fish (salmon or white fish). No sugar, white flour products, coffee and caffeinated teas. Herbal teas with above herbs is recommended.

The acute craving for a cigarette usually lasts only 3 – 5 minutes. Focusing on this fact may make it easier to wait it out. Get busy and do something else beside “think” about having a cigarette. When cravings strike, go for a walk, listen to music, or call 911 (a sister in Christ).

Drink plenty of distilled or reverse osmosis water to begin cleansing your body of the built-up toxins that remain inside you.

A More Excellent Way – author Henry Wright suggests that cigarette addictions are tooted in lack of self-esteem and insecurity and the need to be loved. The mouth, and whatever you put in it, is mistaken for emotional security.

Galatians 5:13 For you, brethren, were [indeed] called to freedom; only [do not let your] freedom be an incentive to your flesh and an opportunity or excuse [for selfishness], but through love you should serve one another.

When you smoke you are being selfish. Selfishness is a sin. Below is a devotional that seemed to apply with tonight’s lesson.

WE DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO, BUT WE ARE LOOKING TO YOU"

II Chronicles 20:12 Need direction? If you need guidance today, here are 7 steps you can take.

1. Clear the channel: Repent and receive forgiveness. Sin, such as bad habits and attitudes, hinder communication with God. Second: Be willing to set aside your personal desires and be open to God.

2. Be patient: Listen: "Do not be impatient. Wait for the Lord" . Listen again, "Let none that wait on thee be ashamed" . Do not give in to self-generated urgency. Let God open the door for you!

3. Beware of external pressures: These usually come from your present circumstances, or from those who had impose their agenda on you. Sift all advice through God's Word.

4. Watch out for internal pressures. These are triggered by old messages, and manifest themselves as fear of loss, or exaggerated expectations.

5. Persist in prayer. The Bible says, "Pray without ceasing". God's goal is to bring you into His likeness, and He uses prayer to do it. Prayer is not for God's benefit; it is for yours! He already knows what you should do, as you persevere in prayer He will reveal it to you.

6. Search the Scriptures. Read and digest God's Word. It is an unfailing source of wisdom. It cuts through the clutter and filters out whatever is not of God.

7. Wait for peace. Listen: "Let the peace of God rule in your hearts" . Peace is the umpire that should settle all your decisions, so don't proceed without it.

God bless you IN HIS SERVICE...Diane

Saturday, January 19, 2008

Week 15

January 16, 2008

The Way to Go Lightly

Week 14 Homework Review

Theme verse: 1 Thessalonians 5:23, 24 May God Himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. And may your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless in the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. He who called you is faithful, and He will do it.

Finish this sentence.

If nothing changes, nothing changes. If something changes, something changes.

Our desire is that we change. How is it that we change? Call on the power of the Holy Spirit that is within you and call your accountability partner. Sometimes you will not and you will fail.

Like last week. I allowed satan to take my thoughts captive. I allowed myself to fall into the trap of self absorption and self focused. Instead of calling my accountability sister, I remained in my “selfishness” and said and did things I regret.

Why? Nothing changed. I didn’t make the call. The call to prayer and the call to my accountability partner. Will I make it the next time? Pray that I will. I pray that you will too.

What is that call for? It is for me to take a “different” look at my situation. When you are under the influence of the enemy, you cannot get yourself back on track. An alcoholic craves alcohol. A selfish person craves the attention of man.

Galatians 5:19
19Now the doings (practices) of the flesh are clear (obvious): they are immorality, impurity, indecency,
20 Idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, anger (ill temper), selfishness, divisions (dissensions), party spirit (factions, sects with peculiar opinions, heresies),
21 Envy, drunkenness, carousing, and the like. I warn you beforehand, just as I did previously, that those who do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God
There are two kingdoms: The Kingdom of Heaven and the Kingdom of satan. While on earth, we are constantly choosing one or the other. Obviously our goal is to choose the Kingdom of Heaven/God with our every decision. Often times, we don’t.
You see, when we choose to act according to the Kingdom of satan, we are replicating the devil instead of replicating Jesus. No wonder the lost are lost. They continue seeing satan’s kingdom in us.

Matthew 12:26And if Satan drives out Satan, he has become divided against himself and disunified; how then will his kingdom last or continue to stand?

Matthew 3:2And saying, Repent ( think differently; change your mind, regretting your sins and changing your conduct), for the kingdom of heaven is at hand,
Last week, Kelly talked to us about our gifts and talents.

Romans 12:6Having gifts (faculties, talents, qualities) that differ according to the grace given us, let us use them: [He whose gift is] prophecy, [let him prophesy] according to the proportion of his faith

Jesus was here on earth for a very short 33 years and during the last 3 years of his life on earth he spent raising up and training future apostles. Today we call them Christians or Christ followers.

2 Corinthians 3:18And all of us, as with unveiled face, [because we] continued to behold [in the Word of God] as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are constantly being transfigured into His very own image in ever increasing splendor and from one degree of glory to another; [for this comes] from the Lord [Who is] the Spirit

We are commanded to reproduce ourselves;

Isaiah 54:17But no weapon that is formed against you shall prosper, and every tongue that shall rise against you in judgment you shall show to be in the wrong. This [peace, righteousness, security, triumph over opposition] is the heritage of the servants of the Lord [those in whom the ideal Servant of the Lord is reproduced]; this is the righteousness or the vindication which they obtain from Me [this is that which I impart to them as their justification], says the Lord.

Romans 1:15 (Amplified Bible)

15 So, for my part, I am willing and eagerly ready to preach the Gospel to you also who are in Rome.

Matthew 25:14 begins the parable of the talents. A master had three servants of whom he gave one five talents (gold, silver or copper), one he gave two talents, one he gave one talent. The first two duplicated their talent but the third did nothing with his talent. The master rewarded the first two but the third he took the talent away plus the relationship between him and his servant was destroyed.

What comparison is this with our lives as a Christ follower?

Let’s look at verses 27-29 as the master is speaking to the third servant.
27Then you should have invested my money with the bankers, and at my coming I would have received what was my own with interest.

28So take the talent away from him and give it to the one who has the ten talents.
29For to everyone who has will more be given, and he will be [a]furnished richly so that he will have an abundance; but from the one who does not have, even what he does have will be taken away.

Kelly and I are going to encourage each of you to discover your talent/gift and use it to multiply the Kingdom of Heaven. I believe the rewards will be here on earth where we will be asked by our God to take more responsibility and into eternity. The present kingdom here on earth and for eternity because we will also be rewarded in heaven when we die.

*Hillary outing
*Did you invite another member of the group over to your house for lunch?
*Did you check out a veggie cookbook and bring in a recipe to share?
*Prayer box – Kelly explains
*Accountability partner – do you need one? Do you have someone you can call and say, HELP, I am under attack and don’t want to take another drink of satan’s poison?


Homework for Proverbs - Chapter 14

As you begin your homework, take a minute to be thankful. J

Colossians 3:15 (Amplified Bible) And let the peace (soul harmony which comes) from Christ rule (act as umpire continually) in your hearts [deciding and settling with finality all questions that arise in your minds, in that peaceful state] to which as [members of Christ's] one body you were also called [to live]. And be thankful (appreciative), [giving praise to God always].

1. Proverbs 14:1 NCV -A wise woman strengthens her family, but a foolish woman destroys hers by what she does.

I had mixed emotions about this verse. My emotional side wanted to scream, “Another verse to make me feel guilty”. Being a “home maintainer” is a huge responsibility. I don’t want to feel guilty any more about not having the “perfect Christian” family. Where does that guilt come from?

I searched a commentary to find the usual clichéd narrative to this verse: A godly wife attends to her house and her family. The foolish woman neglects her husband and children, and wonders why her family goes to ruin.

OK, that’s sounds perfect. I am not. It has guilt written all over it. I try to do the best I can with the cards I have been dealt in this game of LIFE. This includes our spiritual condition, our mental condition, and our physical condition. I am thankful for that 1/3 perfect part of me. Knowing that my spirit is born again and I am forgiven from past, present and future sin, creates in me a willingness to persevere. (Defined: to continue without halting…….going forward without looking back…….carry on….) Stop the guilt. Press on for Jesus.

Luke 7:48 And He said to her, Your sins are forgiven!

Luke 14:27Whoever does not persevere and carry his own cross and come after (follow) Me cannot be My disciple.

3. What is your cross? Cross defined: something hard to bear emotionally or physically.

Write out at least one “cross” that you are bearing: Be specific and detailed. This is between you and God unless you want to share it with the class.

My cross to bear – it’s between me and God.

4. vs 2 Define the word: upright (verb (ACTION) meaning: having or marked by uprightness in principle and action (honest) also means: vertical - between you and God Define respect: (verb – appreciate) Define the word: evil (sinful), perverse (unwilling to yield and do what is righteous), corrupt) and devious (without a fixed or regular course) crooked!The Way means: Imitating Jesus The wrong way means: imitating satan

5. vs 3 I need to hear this over and over until I get it in my head. We will be punished for our foolish words. Define the word punished: _discipline/correct__________________Why again does God correct us? Because he loves us. What Proverb says so? Proverbs 3:12 12 For whom the LORD loves He corrects, Just as a father the son in whom he delights.

6. vs 7 Why does God command us to stay away from foolish women and men? Because they are filled with unwise knowledge, that which you are not to fill your mind with.

7. vs 8 says that a wise woman gives thought to how she acts (her foolish ways) and does something about it but an unwise woman pushes her foolish ways into suppression and pretends they don’t exist. Here is your opportunity to look at another layer of protection that you carrying around in your heart. Write it out. Talk about it to a kindred born-again spirit. God will release it from you because you contain the power of His Holy Spirit within you to do so.

8. vs 10 No one else can know your sadness because they have not walked in your shoes. Sometimes we have tried to share ourselves with people along the way but only in vain. Who knows you more than your Father?

Matthew 6:8 Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him. Share your bitterness, sadness, frustrations, concerns, worries, animosities, hurts, disappointments with Him. He understands. He knows you. Listen for His answer. Be still and know that I am God. Psalm 46:10

9. vs 12 There is a way (path/journey) that seems right (I’m doing the right thing) to a woman (that’s you!), BUT in the end (after time passes and the hindsight is revealed) it leads to death. Wow! What does death mean in this verse? Along the journey it might seem you are taking the straight path that might lead to success and happiness but contentment and joy never come because the world can only offer death not LIFE. The path of death is the detour off “The Way”. Can you lose your salvation? I believe that true salvation cannot be lost. 2 Tim 2:13 If we are faithless [do not believe and are untrue to Him], He remains true (faithful to His Word and His righteous character), for He cannot deny Himself (Research that answer before saying yes or no) What way leads to life?

Proverbs 12:28In the way of righteousness is life, And in its pathway there is no death. What is the definition of LIFE? The Kingdom of God leads to life.

Ever been to an event where everyone is laughing; perhaps a wedding or birthday party? V 13 says that even in laughter the heart may be sad inside. When the laughter ends, the sad still remains. How can you be different? How can you have joy always in spite of your circumstances? Only through the power of the Holy Spirit. Self-willed will not work.

10. vs 14 ---backslider - to slip from a higher or better condition to a former lower or poorer one, perverse – in opposition to faithless – not true to your acknowledge belief in Jesus Christ and evil – destructive/harmful are words used by different versions of the Bible. What do these words mean? Look them up! J

Perhaps you thought…..”I am too “good a person” to be called one of those names. A backslider…Oh that is Suzy S. who stopped coming to church…not like me. I come every Sunday! Be careful! Or maybe perverse is referring to a murderer or an adulterous or someone who smokes and cusses like the neighbor I wave to, or the dishonest politician or the fakey Pentecostals or my husband who falls asleep during the sermon or the tv evangelist caught in a gay relationship. Backslider in your mind might be a kinder word than evil. We use that word flippantly when we have not done our daily devotions for a month or so. It is an “acceptable” word sometimes…oh well, God forgives me. But take a deeper look and apply this verse to you. But please do not take another guilt trip…beating yourself up for all the things you do wrong….or just can’t get it right…..won’t ever be holy but instead base your response on what we have been learning about. What does this verse say to you about becoming whole spiritually, mentally and physically? Backslider defined: Slipping from a higher or better condition to a lower or poorer one! Wow!!!

11. vs 15 and 16 a fallen world, every form of knowledge that comes your way needs to be interpreted using the Word of God. Are you believing everything you hear? Emails are filled with lies, people are feeding you lies, doctors are feeding you lies, salesmen are feeding you lies, politicians are feeding you lies, church friends are feeding you lies….. Why according to verse 15 and 16 do you believe them? Because I didn’t think it through before I acted on it. I didn’t pray before I spoke. I reacted in the flesh.

12. vs 17 define quick – brief, fast, hasty, hurried_ define temper _a tendency to become angry or irritable; a person’s customary manner of emotional response. Mood. Is one of your layers defensiveness? _Yes, because I don’t trust and because I am afraid of being abandoned or rejected___ Perhaps insecurity __lacking stability in God’s Word ___ Not confident in what God thinks of you? Only man _Yes, reprogramming would be a great idea!___ Peel that layer back and defensive talk (quick temperament) stems from insecurity and confidence in who you are in Christ. Nothing else.

I’m preaching to myself...thank you for listening J

13. vs 18 Fools make foolish decisions which results in a foolish outcome and that behavior is repeated until the fool decides one day to follow THE WAY and start making wise decisions. How do you become wise? By obtaining knowledge. Knowledge of what? _what the Word says. By His stripes we are healed _

14. deeply consider vs 20 and 21. Do you treat the rich better than the poor? Are you intimidated by the rich? Do you feel inadequate around rich people to the extent that you do not feel comfortable around them? Do you stereotype a poor person’s abilities to prosper? Dig inside and cleanse your sin (ask the Holy Spirit to change your desire to act in the natural fleshly response) before it raises its ugly head some day some other way. (like a nervous breakdown, children that won’t speak to you, or spiritual punishment.

15. vs 25 define witness - something visible or evident (that’s you) that gives grounds for believing in the existence or presence of something else (your redemption/salvation). The lost are either seeing Truth in you (that makes your witness powerful) or they see lies in you (that makes the lost repeatedly say: those hypocrites…that’s what is in churches!).What is your witness screaming? TRUTH or lies?

16. vs 26 & 27 – Define fear __Great anxiety caused by the expectation of the unknown. _Reverent fear: humbled of being an heir of God’s Kingdom___ Define respect _admire, have a high opinion of, appreciate, to recognize someone’s worth or importance in your lifeDo I fear and respect the Lord? Again the result is life or death. But you say, “I am saved, I am going to Heaven. I have life eternal guaranteed to me”. Perhaps this is speaking of abundant life versus disease and suffering. What do you think?

17. vs 29 and 30 verify that question. Choosing to be angry and have a hasty temper, be envious and jealous rots our bones. But a tranquil (peace of mind) gives life to the flesh. Is there validity to this? Do you see that the Word of God speaks Truth about your physical body where so many lies have been told we “assume” they are truth. Think this through.

18. Wisdom is not (oops) found in a woman who chooses to follow “The Way to Go Lightly”. A Godly Wise Woman – is that beginning to describe you?

19. On a separate sheet of paper list (in one column) the manmade foods you have eliminated from your diet. If you can’t come up with any, write the ones you know you should eliminate and begin today. They are slowly killing you! In the next column list the God grown foods you have added. Work toward variety for that is the key. Venture away from the ordinary and add variety to your diet. With variety comes all the nutrients God created for you to have amazing health. Steer clear of too much meat especially red meat. Go for beans, nuts and legumes for protein Physical health comes from eating God grown foods. We cannot continue to eat high acidic foods and expect our bodies to be well.

Turn the paper over. Write: Thursday – Wednesday Make note of the amount of time you spend this next week exercising. The pressure is on. Get that pedometer out again. 10,000 steps a day is your goal. Do not give in to the laziness of the flesh. It will convince you to sit instead of move. Moving means Life.

20. Congratulations! You completed the longest homework yet in this course. I am proud of you for giving your homework 100% effort. Well done. You are on your way to becoming the wise and buff woman God created you to be. J



Homework for Chapter 15
Due January 23, 2008


1. vs 1 There is a 100% guarantee that if you give a gentle answer to an angry person’s attack, it will calm them, but if you answer with and unkind response, it will cause them to be more angry.

Site an example of a time when this happened personally to you. Both the gentle you and the unkind you. Which example is harder for you to remember????

2. vs 3 What can you hide from the Lord?

3. vs 4 As a tree gives fruit, healing words give life, but dishonest words crush the spirit. (NCV) You might have an example of how healing the words of a doctor were when they said, “Everything is fine”, or how healing it is for someone to hug you and say, “It’ll be OK”. We all need to receive as well as give healing words to others. What words will you use this week to make your fruit ripen? List 10 healing words and start saying them. WAY to GO!

4. vs 7 Ever think about what lips are for? Why did God create lips? What happens when your lips are open and moving? When they are closed? What is an example of what good can come from lips?

5. vs 10 There is severe disciplines for anyone who quits doing what is right and forsakes “the way”! What does “die” mean in this verse?

6. vs 13 Happiness makes a person smile, (a glad heart makes the face cheerful (speaking of lips…hint hint). Sadness can break the spirit (a broken heart crushes the spirit. What does this mean to you and give an example.

7. vs 13 Do you know of someone that is physically sick because they have a broken heart? Are you? Vs 13 says: …but by sorrow of heart the spirit is broken. When I read that verse I know how easily your spirit (defined: your get-up-and-go can get-up-and leave) can be broken. But we must remember the power that resides within us is real.

Romans 15:13Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit We serve a God of hope; our spirit need not ever be broken although we are in a constant bombardment of the power of satan. Do not allow this but instead call on the power of the Holy Spirit.

8. vs 15 is great! Everyday for the poor is hard. Does this mean financially poor? Well the second half of that verse explains that instead it is talking about what? Include vs 16 in your answer.

9. vs 17 is my argument for eating a vegetable diet. Notice I didn’t say; vegetarian. There are a lot of professed vegetarians that simply do not eat meat, but don’t eat vegetables at all, just a lot of junk. Shouldn’t they be called nonmeatjunkatarians? My point???? Eat God’s food regardless of the confusion and influence of the world’s “healthy” diets!

Do you have a quick temper? Perhaps there is bottled up anger inside you. Vs 18 (NRS) - Those who are hot-tempered stir up strife, but those who are slow to anger stop a quarrel. Do the research into your hidden chambers.

Jeremiah 22:13Woe to him who builds his house by unrighteousness and his [upper (hidden)] chambers by injusticeAre there buried hurts, pains or unforgiveness? Remember what the only thing that can wash your hidden chambers clean?

Hebrews 10:22Let us all come forward and draw near with true (honest and sincere) hearts in unqualified assurance and absolute conviction engendered by faith (by that leaning of the entire human personality on God in absolute trust and confidence in His power, wisdom, and goodness), having our hearts sprinkled and purified from a guilty (evil) conscience and our bodies cleansed with pure water God’s Word is alive and sharper than a two-edged sword.

10. vs 23 Conviction L ? Women enjoy giving “good” advice. A word spoken at the right time is a timely word! I have to work on that. J

11. vs 24 (NKJ) “The Way” of life winds upward for the wise, that he may turn away from _____________below. I like the (NCV): Wise people’s lives get better and better. They avoid whatever would cause their death. In sticking with what we have learned so far answer the following questions: What causes spiritual death? What causes mental death? What causes physical death?

12. vs 28 (NRS) The mind of the righteous ponders how to answer, but the mouth of the wicked pours out evil. Define ponder: Look up another verse regarding the mouth: There are over 300 of them so it won’t be hard to find one! When a person says: “You are putting words into my mouth”, what exactly does that mean? Could there be some blame shifting going on here?
vs 30 Where does your happiness show? Where does the LIGHT of your heart show through? What makes for good health? Is there a connection between the spirit, mind, and body?
vs 31 (NLT) If you listen to constructive criticism you will be at home with the wise. 32 If you reject criticism, you only harm yourself; but if you listen to correction, you grow in understanding.

Define listen:
Define constructive:
Define criticism:
Define correction:
Define wise:
Define understanding:
Now summarize vs 31 and 32 in your own words:


You have been given a copy of a nutrition type magazine. Read at least one article and be prepared to report your findings to the class. Part of changing is to expose yourself to magazines and books that teach you. Make a decision to educate yourself. I have plenty of books to lend out. J


The Way to Go Lightly Schedule for 2008


January 16th – Chapter 14

January 23 – Chapter 15

January 30 – Chapter 16 Pitch-in Dinner at Church - Creative Veggies

February 6 – Chapter 17

February 13 – Chapter 18

February 20 – Chapter 19

February 27 – Chapter 20 Pitch-in Dinner at Church – Wholegrain breads and salads

March 5 – Chapter 21

March 12 – Chapter 22

March 19 – Chapter 23

March 26 – Chapter 24 Pitch-in Dinner at Church – Wholegrain soups

April 2 – Chapter 25

April 9 – Chapter 26

April 16 – Chapter 27

April 23 – Chapter 28

April 30 – Chapter 29 Pitch-in Dinner at Church – wholegrain pastas with life giving sauces

May 7 – Chapter 30

May 14 – Chapter 31

May 21 – Dinner and graduation

Friday, January 11, 2008

Week 14

2008 -- a new women He will create!

Spiritual Healing

The following are the notes from homework on Proverbs Chapter 13.

  1. Exercise your spirit by reading back through chapters 10, 11, 12, and 13. This is where the practical teaching began. Write out anything you missed before and be ready to share it in class on the 9th.
    Does anyone have anything to share with the group after rereading Chapters 10-13?
  2. Exercise your soul by practicing random acts of kindness. This may take a little preplanning or might come spontaneously. If a thought comes to you, act on it immediately.
    Does anyone have an example of this?
  3. Exercise your body by walking a little further than usual, stretching, practice your yoga positions, or lift weights. Do not allow the enemy of laziness creep into your life. You’re on “the Way” to Go Lightly!

    These questions were taken from NLT.
  4. vs 1 We have been seeing this word discipline over and over and over. Make a list of the areas God is speaking to you about because I know He has brought up a thing or two! Then exercise your spirit by applying the Word to this area of your life. The soul and body will love you for it!
    A heart of self absorption:
    Galatians 5:13For you, brethren, were [indeed] called to freedom; only [do not let your] freedom be an incentive to your flesh and an opportunity or excuse [for selfishness], but through love you should serve one another.Galatians 5:12-14 (in Context) Galatians 5
  5. Proverbs 13:2 (Amplified Bible) (Whole Chapter) vs 2 2 A good man eats good from the fruit of his mouth, but the desire of the treacherous is for violence.
    I took this verse to mean that if we “love” others, others will want us to feast at their dinner table. (Not exactly sure where my mind was on this interpretation, but it is good…must be God’s idea). You know, I think we should start inviting each other over to eat at our dinner tables. Then when we get comfortable with that, I think we should invite neighbors over to eat at our dinner table. It is easy to invite family (sometimes), but how about people that don’t look, sound, smell, or act like us. This is something I want to work on. Perhaps you do too. Who will you invite today for this weekend’s dinner?
    Something else this verse might imply. You are known by your fruit.
    Matthew 12:33Either make the tree sound (healthy and good), and its fruit sound (healthy and good), or make the tree rotten (diseased and bad), and its fruit rotten (diseased and bad); for the tree is known and recognized and judged by its fruit.
    Luke 6:44For each tree is known and identified by its own fruit; for figs are not gathered from thornbushes, nor is a cluster of grapes picked from a bramblebush
    Matthew 12:34You offspring of vipers! How can you speak good things when you are evil (wicked)? For out of the fullness (the overflow, the superabundance) of the heart the mouth speaks.
  6. Diarrhea of the mouth is a curable disease! Take one “Proverbs 13:3 verse” and call me in the morning! I teach people how to eat in order to obtain a long life, but now I see that Scripture says that shutting up will have the same results! Guard (protect it from speaking) your mouth…a quick retort: speaking too quickly without thinking…. Can ruin everything.
    I want to settle things immediately and talk and talk until things are settled, but should learn to be quiet. Don’t they need to know my opinion? Isn’t it important to let them know what I think as to persuade them to go along with my way?
  7. vs 4 It is hard not to judge obvious laziness. But I need to look at the hours I spend idle. How much time am I spending being “busy” but yet unproductive for the work of the Kingdom? How much time am I spending complaining; checking email more than once a day, talking about people, dwelling on things I cannot change, not loving my neighbor. Sin is not just what we do wrong, it is also, what we don’t do right.
  8. vs 6 Godliness (doing what is righteous) guards the path of the blameless (no willful sin), but the evil (sinful) are misled (deceived) by sin. Apply this verse to our theme verse (1 Thess 5:23-24) Why is it that we are not blameless (There is willful sin in our lives)? We are obviously choosing to act in the flesh. Choose the spirit instead. (Walk away and pray)
  9. vs 9 The life of the godly is full of LIGHT and joy, but the LIGHT of the wicked will be snuffed out. The Way to Go LIGHTLY ministry is about choosing the LIGHT of the WORLD. Am I seeing this repeated over and over? Repetition is a good thing. It breaks through hard heads and stubborn personalities and begins to penetrate the soul. JOY JOY JOY How is it that we change? Through God’s intervention only not our own doings. Pray for the areas in your life that you know are evil. Romans 7:18For I know that nothing good dwells within me, that is, in my flesh. I can will what is right, but I cannot perform it. [I have the intention and urge to do what is right, but no power to carry it out.]
  10. Get rich quick (vs 11) Multi-level marketing, stock markets, real estate…it is all a gamble as we have seen this last year. God’s word says, wealth comes from hard work. Slow and steady wins the race. Vow not to be sucked into any thing that promises quick wealth.
  11. Try in 2008 to receive constructive advice from those you respect (vs 13). Don’t take it personal (like I do) but see if there is any validity to what they are saying. We can’t see ourselves other than through a mirror and mirrors are often pretty distorted and blurry. J God brought to my attention that I am dwelling too much on an illusion of how I think “It” should be. It’s not. Instead He said to dwell on what is good, right, positive,

    Philippians 4:8For the rest, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is worthy of reverence and is honorable and seemly, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely and lovable, whatever is kind and winsome and gracious, if there is any virtue and excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think on and weigh and take account of these things [fix your minds on them].
  12. vs 16 Wise people think before they act. I act before I think. Again this is natural, but can be (through God’s interception) stopped. I have to resist the natural and overpower it with the spirit. STOP ME LORD BEFORE I MAKE A FOOL OF MYSELF.
    vs 17 This made me think of how distorted a conversation can become about someone you are talking about. It not only doesn’t make you healthy but also does not make them healthy. In 2008, vow to only talk words of edification (building up someone). OK, that’s a biggie!
  13. vs 18 - 20 Accept criticism, walk with the wise, or be foolish. Elaborate on this verse from an incident in your life. (I received a gift from my sister on Christmas Eve. I didn’t call to thank her. She called me and I wondered why she was upset until I realized how inconsiderate and selfish I was for not taking a few minutes to acknowledge her thoughtfulness. Lesson learned here: Call or send a thank you card immediately before you cloud your mind with life. I blamed my dislike for Christmas…being away from gatherings, and family but the bottom line was I was being selfish. I didn’t get relief from blaming my selfishness. I ask for forgiveness and like this verse implies, I accepted the criticism and will never repeat that foolish behavior.
  14. vs 24 – this rod is between you and God. Stop judging others for the way they discipline their children. We have not lived their life nor have we walked in their shoes. It is so easy to criticize other women’s parenting. STOP and LOVE them. Offer to help them. They are doing whatever they can for the life they are in.
  15. vs 25 NLT says: The godly eat to their heart’s content, but the belly of the wicked goes hungry. There you go! God gave you permission J

    Wait a minute……….the New King James version says this:

    The righteous eats to the satisfying of his soul, but the stomach of the wicked shall be in want.

    Now you see the difference between versions of the Bible and how some versions may lead a godly person to actually believe they could eat to their heart’s content. But what does this verse actually mean? (so sorry L)
  16. Do not forget to study the verses I gave you from last week’s lesson.
    Romans 14:1-23 Gal 5:13-26 Gal 6:7

    God bless each of you and may the God of peace be with you and keep you safe until we meet again on January 9th, 2008!
    I love you!

Mental Healing

Happy 2008 – May it be honoring to God

Though no one can go back and make a brand-new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand-new ending.

1 Thess 5:23, 24 May God himself, the God of peace sanctify you through and through and may your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless until the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.

2008 has been declared “the year of new beginnings”.

Why is it that so many of us need a new beginning? Why is it that we just never seem to get it right? Why do we need to make New Year’s resolutions? You would think that we would have figured life out by now.

Resolve means: to find the solution for

Resolution means: The power to make choices and set goals and to act upon them firmly in spite of opposition or difficulty.

It 2008! Another 365 days…whoops 366! Leap year and election year. January, we say is a good time to change.

What did you “resolve” to find the solution for in your life? You have the power within you to make the right choices to do exactly what you resolved to do. You have the power within you to set goals and keep them. You have the power within you to act upon (walk the talk) in spite of all opposition (satan) or difficulty.

What is that power?

The same power that impregnated a virgin woman 2000 years ago.

Matthew 1:18Now the birth of Jesus Christ took place under these circumstances: When His mother Mary had been promised in marriage to Joseph, before they came together, she was found to be pregnant [through the power] of the Holy Spirit

Acts 1:8But you shall receive power (ability, efficiency, and might) when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you shall be My witnesses in Jerusalem and all Judea and Samaria and to the ends (the very bounds) of the earth.

Romans 8:13For if you live according to [the dictates of] the flesh, you will surely die. But if through the power of the [Holy] Spirit you are [habitually] putting to death (making extinct, deadening) the [evil] deeds prompted by the body, you shall [really and genuinely] live forever

Ephesians 3:16May He grant you out of the rich treasury of His glory to be strengthened and reinforced with mighty power in the inner man by the [Holy] Spirit [Himself indwelling your innermost being and personality].

Our goal...our resolve...is to become whole; to heal spiritually, soul (mentally) , and body (physically).

The power of the Holy Spirit was given to us when we were born again to achieve that resolution.

Matthew 5:10Blessed and happy and enviably fortunate and spiritually prosperous (in the state in which the born-again child of God enjoys and finds satisfaction in God's favor and salvation, regardless of his outward conditions) are those who are persecuted for righteousness' sake (for being and doing right), for theirs is the kingdom of heaven!

Let’s take a closer look at

Proverbs 14:10 and discuss what a wise woman does when she encounters someone who is angry or bitter with her.

Anger and heated yelling between family members is inevitable. Responding to anger with anger or responding to bitterness with bitterness leads only to an intensified battle. Someone slams out of the room yelling at you and you are yelling back.

The hardest thing for me during arguments is that I want resolution immediately and can’t get it through my head that maybe it would be easier to resolve later.

But Proverbs tells us to back off. Consider the truth about the situation. What really happened? Am I at fault? Try to reconstruct what just happened with honesty.

Listen carefully to what the angry person is saying or take a deeper look at what you are feeling. Bitterness and anger are usually the offshoots of deep hurt; either your hurt or the other person’s. Unvented anger will eventually vent some how and it is usually during an argument when words come out that otherwise you probably could have restrained from saying.

Security in the relationship is very important. Confidence in who you are in Christ is also important. Ask God to help you understand why this person feels the way he or she does and do not allow yourself to “push down” any toxic emotions.

It is important also to remember what God thinks about you. You are perfect spiritually but mentally and physically you have made many mistakes, but you are still his daughter and nothing can change that fact.

Ask God to help you respond with His love and grace. Reflecting His image is always the key.

Homework for Proverbs - Chapter 14

  1. As you begin your homework, take a minute to be thankful. J
    Colossians 3:15 (Amplified Bible) And let the peace (soul harmony which comes) from Christ rule (act as umpire continually) in your hearts [deciding and settling with finality all questions that arise in your minds, in that peaceful state] to which as [members of Christ's] one body you were also called [to live]. And be thankful (appreciative), [giving praise to God always].
  2. Proverbs 14:1 NCV -A wise woman strengthens her family, but a foolish woman destroys hers by what she does.
    I had mixed emotions about this verse. My emotional side wanted to scream, “Another verse to make me feel guilty”. Being a “home maintainer” is a huge responsibility. I don’t want to feel guilty any more about not having the “perfect Christian” family. Where does that guilt come from?

    I searched a commentary to find the usual clichéd narrative to this verse: A godly wife attends to her house and her family. The foolish woman neglects her husband and children, and wonders why her family goes to ruin.

    OK, that’s sounds perfect. I am not. It has guilt written all over it. I try to do the best I can with the cards I have been dealt in this game of LIFE. This includes our spiritual condition, our mental condition, and our physical condition. I am thankful for that 1/3 perfect part of me. Knowing that my spirit is born again and I am forgiven from past, present and future sin, creates in me a willingness to persevere. (Defined: to continue without halting…….going forward without looking back…….carry on….) Stop the guilt. Press on for Jesus.

    Luke 7:48 And He said to her, Your sins are forgiven!

    Luke 14:27 Whoever does not persevere and carry his own cross and come after (follow) Me cannot be My disciple.

    What is your cross? Cross defined: something hard to bear emotionally or physically.

    Write out at least one “cross” that you are bearing: Be specific and detailed. This is between you and God unless you want to share it with the class.
  3. vs 2 Define the word: upright . Define the word: respect
    Define the word: evil, perverse and devious

    The Way means:
    The wrong way means:
  4. vs 3 I need to hear this over and over until I get it in my head. We will be punished for our foolish words. Define the word punished: ___________________

    Why again does God correct us? What Proverb says so?
  5. vs 7 Why does God command us to stay away from foolish women and men?
  6. vs 8 says that a wise woman gives thought to how she acts (her foolish ways) and does something about it but an unwise woman pushes her foolish ways into suppression and pretends they don’t exist. Here is your opportunity to look at another layer of protection that you carrying around in your heart. Write it out. Talk about it to a kindred born-again spirit. God will release it from you because you contain the power of His Holy Spirit within you to do so.
  7. vs 10 No one else can know your sadness because they have not walked in your shoes. Sometimes we have tried to share ourselves with people along the way but only in vain. Who knows you more than your Father? Matthew 6:8Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.

    Share your bitterness, sadness, frustrations, concerns, worries, animosities, hurts, disappointments with Him. He understands. He knows you. Listen for His answer. Be still and know that I am God. Psalm 46:10
  8. vs 12 There is a way (path/journey) that seems right (I’m doing the right thing) to a woman (that’s you!), BUT in the end (after time passes and the hindsight is revealed) it leads to death.

    Wow! What does death mean in this verse? Can you lose your salvation? (Research that answer before saying yes or no) What way leads to life? What is the definition of LIFE?
  9. Ever been to an event where everyone is laughing; perhaps a wedding or birthday party? V 13 says that even in laughter the heart may be sad inside. When the laughter ends, the sad still remains. How can you be different? How can you have joy always in spite of your circumstances?
  10. vs 14 ---backslider, perverse, faithless and evil are words used by different versions of the Bible. What do these words mean? Look them up! J
    Perhaps you thought…..”I am too “good a person” to be called one of those names. A backslider…Oh that is Suzy S. who stopped coming to church…not like me. I come every Sunday! Be careful! Or maybe perverse is referring to a murderer or an adulterous or someone who smokes and cusses like the neighbor I wave to, or the dishonest politician or the fakey Pentecostals or my husband who falls asleep during the sermon or the tv evangelist caught in a gay relationship. Backslider in your mind might be a kinder word than evil. We use that word flippantly when we have not done our daily devotions for a month or so. It is an “acceptable” word sometimes…oh well, God forgives me.

    But take a deeper look and apply this verse to you. But please do not take another guilt trip…beating yourself up for all the things you do wrong….or just can’t get it right…..won’t ever be holy but instead base your response on what we have been learning about. What does this verse say to you about becoming whole spiritually, mentally and physically?

    Backslider defined: Slipping from a higher or better condition to a lower or poorer one! Wow!!!
  11. vs 15 and 16 a fallen world, every form of knowledge that comes your way needs to be interpreted using the Word of God. Are you believing everything you hear? Emails are filled with lies, people are feeding you lies, doctors are feeding you lies, salesmen are feeding you lies, politicians are feeding you lies, church friends are feeding you lies….. Why according to verse 15 and 16 do you believe them?
  12. vs 17 define quick - ____________________ define temper __________________
    Is one of your layers defensiveness? _________________________________
    Perhaps insecurity ______________________________________
    Not confident in what God thinks of you? Only man _________________________

    Peel that layer back and defensive talk (quick temperament) stems from insecurity and confidence in who you are in Christ. Nothing else.

    I’m preaching to myself…….. thank you for listening J
  13. vs 18 Fools make foolish decisions which results in a foolish outcome and that behavior is repeated until the fool decides one day to follow THE WAY and start making wise decisions. How do you become wise? By obtaining knowledge. Knowledge of what? _____________________________________________________
  14. deeply consider vs 20 and 21. Do you treat the rich better than the poor? Are you intimidated by the rich? Do you feel inadequate around rich people to the extent that you do not feel comfortable around them? Do you stereotype a poor person’s abilities to prosper? Dig inside and cleanse your sin (ask the Holy Spirit to change your desire to act in the natural fleshly response) before it raises its ugly head some day some other way. (like a nervous breakdown, children that won’t speak to you, or spiritual punishment.
  15. vs 25 define witness - something visible or evident (that’s you) that gives grounds for believing in the existence or presence of something else (your redemption/salvation).

    The lost are either seeing Truth in you (that makes your witness powerful) or they see lies in you (that makes the lost repeatedly say: those hypocrites…that’s what is in churches!).

    What is your witness screaming? TRUTH or lies?
  16. vs 26 & 27 – Define fear ______________________________

    Define respect _______________________________

    Do I fear and respect the Lord? __________________________Again the result is life or death. But you say, “I am saved, I am going to Heaven. I have life eternal guaranteed to me”. Perhaps this is speaking of abundant life versus disease and suffering. What do you think?
  17. vs 29 and 30 verify that question. Choosing to be angry and have a hasty temper, be envious and jealous rots our bones. But a tranquil (peace of mind) gives life to the flesh. Is there validity to this? Do you see that the Word of God speaks Truth about your physical body where so many lies have been told we “assume” they are truth. Think this through.
  18. Wisdom is not found in a woman who chooses to follow “The Way to Go Lightly”.

    A Godly Wise Woman – is that beginning to describe you?
  19. On a separate sheet of paper list (in one column) the manmade foods you have eliminated from your diet. If you can’t come up with any, write the ones you know you should eliminate and begin today. They are slowly killing you! In the next column list the God grown foods you have added. Work toward variety for that is the key. Venture away from the ordinary and add variety to your diet. With variety comes all the nutrients God created for you to have amazing health. Steer clear of too much meat especially red meat. Go for beans, nuts and legumes for protein Physical health comes from eating God grown foods. We cannot continue to eat high acidic foods and expect our bodies to be well.

    Turn the paper over. Write: Thursday – Wednesday Make note of the amount of time you spend this next week exercising. The pressure is on. Get that pedometer out again. 10,000 steps a day is your goal. Do not give in to the laziness of the flesh. It will convince you to sit instead of move. Moving means Life.
  20. Congratulations! You completed the longest homework yet in this course. I am proud of you for giving your homework 100% effort. Well done. You are on your way to becoming the wise and buff woman God created you to be. J

Physical Healing

This week I would encourage you to check out a vegetarian cookbook from the library and bring in a recipe that you have tried and want to share with the class.

Here are some recipes - let me know how you like them.

Un-Southern Cole Slaw

½ head red cabbage, shredded
½ head white cabbage, shredded
2 carrots, grated
1 cup chopped parsley
A little less than ½ cup of extra virgin olive oil
¼ cup lemon juice (fresh)
1 inch fresh gingerroot
½ tsp sea salt
1 tsp mustard powder

Toss the cabbage and carrot in a pretty bowl. Combine the remaining ingredients in a blender and blend until thoroughly mixed. Pour the mixture on top of the salad and stir.


Three Bean Stew

1 ¼ cups of brown rice
2 cups water
½ tsp salt
2 tbsp olive oil
1 ½ cup onion, chopped
3 – 4 cloves of garlic
2 cups cooked or canned pinto beans
2 cups cooked or canned garbanzo beans (retain liquid)
10 oz frozen lima beans
¼ tsp salt
Cayenne pepper

Rinse the rice two or three times in cold water. Combine rice, water and salt in saucepan. Simmer the brown rice about 40 minutes.

Sauté onion in olive oil until soft about 8 minutes. Add garlic and basil if desired and cook for additional 2 – 3 minutes. Add pinto and garbanzo beans and add enough liquid to cover beans. When the bean boil add frozen limas. When it boils again, cover and simmer 5 – 10 minutes. Serve over rice. Ymm


Must have Cornbread too!

Oven 350, 25 – 30 minutes until Slightly browned

Blend together

1 cup of buttermilk
2 quality eggs (beaten)
3 tbsp pure maple syrup or honey
2 tbsp olive oil
2 tbsp melted butter

Separate bowl blend together

1 cup whole grain cornmeal
1 cup whole wheat or organic white flour
2 tsp baking powder
1 tsp salt.

Blend together and pour into a greased 8 inch square pan.

Bake as above. Check for doneness with a toothpick.


ENJOY!